• starchylemming@lemmy.world
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    21 hours ago

    who would have guessed, that a culture that hates woman also hates every feminine act.

    ironically the exclusive gay top is the manliest man by that definition, he doesn’t even enjoy the softness of women. good=more manly, bad=more feminine.

    it all checks out with my experience (no, not sexual) way to many of the second or third generation turks in germany have a completely fucked up view of masculinity and women. gotta look tough all the time! so tough! turkey is the best! erdogan is great! this sub culture was strong when i was in school and is alive and well today

    • Holytimes@sh.itjust.works
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      20 hours ago

      Welcome to the old Greek/romen model! Sexuality is a matter of position and power dynamics. Not sexual attraction.