This isn’t about grieving, just assuming the complete absence of your family and all the inheritance.
I’d pay off my medical debt and go back to university. I’m so tired. I just want to learn and stop struggling. I don’t even qualify for my own debt so I have to have it in someone else’s name, being bound to an abuser…
I think the most value would be a in a couple of houses … so I’d have to learn about real estate or hire someone to liquidate them, which would be annoying.