Give me something juicy

    • Mwa@thelemmy.club
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      8 hours ago

      i was gonna say this one,but someone already said that.(am not Homophobic or Transphobic)

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        13 hours ago

        Yes, more or less. It’s a spectrum forced or pressed to the extremes, if it wasn’t, I think a lot of more people would consider themselves somewhat pansexual.

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            3 hours ago

            I was playing with the word ‘natural’. Of course, everything that happens is natural, heterosexuality is as natural as homosexuality and pansexuality because it happens. But yes, I believe straight heterosexuality would be pretty rare without all the social mechanisms in place to encourage it.

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          9 hours ago

          It sounds like you are making the argument that sexuality is nuture, not nature…I am not sure how I feel about that. I suppose it must be both to some and that there would definitely be significantly more gay, lesbian, bi, etc. folks if society didn’t socialize us to be hetero by default.

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              3 hours ago

              There are perfect zeros in the Kinsley scale, and even without the social mechanisms in place to encourage heterosexuality I’d expect them to be. I just think they would be closer to extreme cases and not to the mode.

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          13 hours ago

          Though not for me personally, I could definitely see that based on the practices of other societies