Sex is like anything. It can be great and it can also be destructive.
When I was younger I dated three people who engaged in destructive sex, two were hyper-sexual and the third was something else. Two were in college and the third was when I was in the Army. The two hyper-sexual ones were insatiable and as a young guy whose dick would get hard with the wind blew I loved it. In both cases we would have sex at least three times a day.
The third one was less entertaining. She had to cheat. She had to sneak off and fuck other people. She just could not help herself it was how she got off.
Looking back and thinking about two of them the hyper sexuality was really a symptom of their larger issue. The one I “dated” in the Army was clearly a Borderline or Bi-Polar I do not know which. She was actively being treated by a shrink. I put dated in quotes because people who have to wrestle with either of those are a real challenge to be with.
The one I dated in college would purge. I don’t know if she was bulimic or anorexic. I was a college kid wrapped up in all my own bullshit so I didn’t understand or get what I was seeing. “She just got sick a lot”
Sex is like anything. It can be great and it can also be destructive.
When I was younger I dated three people who engaged in destructive sex, two were hyper-sexual and the third was something else. Two were in college and the third was when I was in the Army. The two hyper-sexual ones were insatiable and as a young guy whose dick would get hard with the wind blew I loved it. In both cases we would have sex at least three times a day.
The third one was less entertaining. She had to cheat. She had to sneak off and fuck other people. She just could not help herself it was how she got off.
Looking back and thinking about two of them the hyper sexuality was really a symptom of their larger issue. The one I “dated” in the Army was clearly a Borderline or Bi-Polar I do not know which. She was actively being treated by a shrink. I put dated in quotes because people who have to wrestle with either of those are a real challenge to be with.
The one I dated in college would purge. I don’t know if she was bulimic or anorexic. I was a college kid wrapped up in all my own bullshit so I didn’t understand or get what I was seeing. “She just got sick a lot”