

Yep, that’s totally valid. We are both people who don’t like physical contact all the time so sharing a bed is not great for us. We do enjoy it from time to time and sleep together (especially while camping).
Developer for 30+ years, father of four.


Yep, that’s totally valid. We are both people who don’t like physical contact all the time so sharing a bed is not great for us. We do enjoy it from time to time and sleep together (especially while camping).


No, it has nothing to do with it. We just both prefer having our own bedrooms. Nudism is completely not an issue for me.


Yeah she knew the whole time. It’s never a problem at all. We have separate rooms and I can always just throw a sarong on it need be. I’m not sure why you would assume there would be problems. There aren’t any.


Your username + instance informs your comment.


Once a month or so. But I’m the only person that sits in that spot naked so take that how you will. You’re gonna gross yourself out from your own worldview no matter what I say.
Edit: Didn’t your momma tell you that nekiid bodies are disgusting?


Sheets on the couch, covers on chairs.


I was lied to as a child by everyone around me about death, heaven, etc but I never believed it. I didn’t even know there was a word for my skepticism until I was a teenager.


I have a strategy for doing things I don’t want to do, which is to time the activity to music. For cleaning the house, I will put on a vinyl record and will clean until both sides finish playing, then take a break. I’ve turned it into a game to see how much I can get done in that time.
For work or study I’ll do the same thing with a specific number of songs from my streaming service (say 10 or 20). I find I pay more attention to the music, enjoying it more, and the specific time frame in ehich to get things done helps with focus. I have no idea if this would help you.


I’m a nudist and this is actually legit. I only wear clothes to go outside sometimes and often only briefly so I’ll usually just hang them back up when I’m done. I only do a single small load of laundry once a month or so. My wife isn’t so she has to do like 4 loads a month of her clothes.


I see a lot of differing reasons people do it, all of which are legit. I wonder if it might make sense for Lemmy to add an optional delete reason field.


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Same here.


What’s interesting is that both perspectives are valid. Of course she could have asked why you don’t have social media, and when you spout off about privacy and big tech then she would cancel for a different reason.


/dullmensclub


I think that relying upon a closed source source of data is perhaps not the right way to go about this. Assuming that they are a source of truth to begin with is problematic.


I grew up with a Mandarin household and only learned Japanese later. I would tend to agree than Mandarin is easier but there are nuances.


It was implied but since you point it out I’ll be explicit. I don’t use corporate social media. I.e. Facebook, twitter, bluesky etc, including video stuff like YouTube, tiktok
That’s a very good point!