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Cake day: August 14th, 2023

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  • Gonna try to answer this as neutral as I can but frankly speaking when they said “I do” they made a pact to respect each other’s wishes and to establish whatever boundaries they deem is necessary to keep both themselves and each other happy amongst other things. Although some outsiders might have different opinions on what’s right or wrong that doesn’t mean that it applies to what they consider is right or wrong. If the husband said they didn’t feel comfortable and the partner is respecting their partners feelings, not being forced to, it doesn’t give another person outside the right to say that they are in the wrong since its their relationship. Unless you think she’s being physical, mentally abused or manipulated which judging from the story is a no.



















  • Extras@lemmy.todaytoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlAm I insane?
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    3 months ago

    Screw it go for it think the only thing holding you down is cost of materials and machining especially if you’re adding a message to it, if its just an artifact/statue you’re shooting for maybe opt for a more budget and workable material than tungsten. Some kind of industrial metal you can work with like steel or even aluminum may be a better alternative stone material (granite or marble) being the best IMO for longevity, encase it in epoxy and then put in a PVC pipe with desiccant for added measure. Finding a location where it won’t be disturbed is probably the hardest part of this. Can’t be exposed to UV light or harsh chemicals, so ocean is out (think its illegal to dump there too). If burying, it needs to be below the frost line for sure in fairly stable ground, with good chemical makeup of the soil, where people won’t interact with it. I personally can’t come up with a legal means so you might have to get permission from some kind of protected grounds like a national park or something. Even then at most it will last maybe a couple thousand years, longer if using stone material instead of metal