Fabrik872

I think it might be an instagram thing where people just want to have lot of connections so they look popular so they make an tinder account to farm more people and that thing with exchanging few messages might just be for convincing you that the person you are writing to is real human not void or bot or nowadays ai so you dont unfollow that is my theory but i dont have anything to back it

If you are more focused on content why not to use something like wordpress? This allows you to write blogs and stuff without coding.

I would like discord but in fediverse. This one i am actually using and even there are foss alternative like nextcloud talk i would like something that is at least as reliable as discord for calls