I ise matrix. It’s pretty alright. Better than IRC

I’m always surprised by its sheer power

Not sure about preview, but Kate?

I just put in the code and buy my steam games tho… (Maybe it depends on your country)

Paysafecard perhaps?

GNU TALER? (sparsely available and centralized tho)

Startpage is alright

“Gender is cringe and we should get rid of it”

On a more serious note: I do not think that groups that define themselves in terms of exclusion are very good long-term. And neither do I think that issues of social inequality or discrimination are solved through segregation.

Especially when it comes to gender we see huge cultural divides and I think we’d have a lot healthier a society if we could share more understanding.

In particular I don’t think that exclusion based on gender or sex characteristics can build a healthy community. Not an egalitarian at least.

The same way that white-exclusive or black-exclusive groups would be pretty corrosive to a society where people of either skin colour coexist.

Furthermore I’d argue that this kind of strict segregation of people along gender lines into specific roles and social groups is how a lot of sexism is (historically and contemporarily) maintained.

I firmly believe that the only way to achieve the society we want, is to live it. How are we going to have temporary measures now but trust me, in the far future we’ll fix this (if the measures are not temporary you’re just engaging in principled discrimination imo) if we want a more equal society we should live it, fight for it, be the more equal society.

I want a more equal society.