Some tips :

Use phone flashlight to create light that isn’t in the baby’s face
Have a step by step prep plan you usually follow when you change the baby, including setting out cotton , water, the next nappy etc.
Open up the nappy before you begin changing , take this time to orient it
If you’re going to change a poopy baby, consider if the water usually drips out everywhere and undress the baby to avoid this (may be difficult during winter)
If not, expose the least amount of baby
Wipe down changing surfaces after changing poopy baby.

If you’re still changing meconium, best of luck, that’s the worst kind

at that point just turn them into soylent

it’s cheaper to pay them to live a basic existence than to police them for comitting crimes.

We went a long way to visit grandparent with our 1y3mo , and the biggest thing is to have a way to keep them occupied and find or create a safe place to let them loose.

Not sure ho to deal with the 4yo yet.

they want to explore everything. we let them explore the appropriate things, and then, there is nothing left to explore expect inappropriate things.

just let them. teach them the lesson directly.

Yeah, that’s my theory. I’m currently a first time parent to a 1 y 9m.

Send help.

When they start hitting the toddler stage, shit gets even more real.

I wish you the best of health and happiness for your family

they were ok when I saw them live with NIN

I prefer genghis tron

your problem is not a technical issue, I’d ask for interpersonal advice on how to deal with your situation with your mother instead.

Good luck.

Thees nuts gotteem

mooooooooooooooooooooooney.

and

faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame

When you stop having a realistic view of porn. If you are using it as a simple pleasure and exploring sexual expression, there’s no issue.

If you see you are using it too much, and is causing you problems, you may need to be aware that you are developing an addiction like any other.

If you start purposefully avoiding it even at the cost of your own comfort and stress relief, saying things like “porn wrecks your mind and sexuality”, you are entering the current conservative, frustrating young people to manipulate them territory.

Learn a new language and get the fuck out. Visit family during elections.

In this context, it’s an employment specialization that allows you to earn a greater than average income. I was amazed that as a software tester I used to get paid more than a nurse, an arguably more stressful and more important employment path.

I’m on the left. It’s a hard thing that happens in life that I am pointing out, not agreeing with.

No job, no clue. At the start the perspective of some others and me were that it felt like I just fell out of the sky and tried to integrate into society.

I figured I’d either do immersion learning for spanish, or succeed and set up my life here.

The job came fairly easily, one of the companies from my first wave of applications accepted me.

step 1 : have a career

step 2 : don’t spend that much money, building up savings

step 3 : time is money, therefore, money is time.

step 4 : be very, very frugal during your time with no work. I ate a lot of protein powder, eggs and pasta

Uruguay, still there.

Hey, I actually did this! It was the best time of my life.

My aim was to migrate to south america, specialize in my career and get in/stay in shape.

I spent my days going to the gym, learning spanish, doing impromptu streams on twitch (I found a little community in my preperations to quit my job) , and I did travel to the country I wanted to migrate to and to NY to see a band that rarely plays live, visit my family in a different country and to visit my bud that lived in scandinavia.

I spent a month with my family preparing a portfolio.

I saved money during my career, about $16k over several years,and figured, if time is money, money is time.

I’m happy to answer any questions.

treat someone the way you would want to be treated; if that person is a rabid idiot that spews things like “death penalty now” , then make an exception since they don’t deserve good treatement; they deserve what they would do to other people, it’s ok to make an exception for these people.