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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • What’s the TV policy at your home in general?

    If you’re otherwise restricting screen time, but when he’s crying you make an exception, you might have accidentally incentived him to cry… which isn’t to say that he’s doing it intentionally… Just that a real comfortable pattern has been established.

    Everyone has a parenting scheme, so take anything you hear with a grain of salt…

    But, I think it’d maybe be worth considering just cutting TV entirety for a little while? See how it goes? Probably a rough few days but you’ll both find a new normal. If you’re digging the new normal, keep it up. If not, go back.




  • My entire professional career has had threats of the boogeyman coming if things don’t get done faster than they can realistically get done.

    I’ve been doing this long enough that my estimates are actually pretty reliable. Two weeks too long? No problem. It’s still a negotiation. Put the ball in thier court by saying what scope they’re willing to cut to get it in the timeframe they were imagining.

    They’ll either play ball and cut, accept that it’ll take as long as you originally said, or say “no, everything, do it in 2 days.”. The managers who do the latter in my experience don’t last very long… because usually THEY’RE the ones that were making impossible promises that never quite seem to pan out. They eventually get canned in favour of someone who is more reliable.



  • My company was absorbed by a US company, and it’s pretty accurate.

    And, I think they think it must mean that this dedication makes them good at working.

    But they fucking aren’t. I constantly have to remind my coworkers that they’re not paid by the hour. Work hard, work smart, we can finish up and call it a day. Nope. I swear to god these people are actively contriving ways to ensure we work so badly that it necessitates working late. Which we do not get paid for.

    Then they flex about thier work culture, thier long hours. You fools did this to yourselves, voluntarily, for literally no benefit.





  • The company i work for is a bank and was holding the menagerie bag and so suddenly was trying to canvas us all how to use it.

    They tried to get us psyched by showing us that they had modeled the stuffing bank board room in the universe. They were like “you could hold your meetings HERE if you were in the METAVERSE!”

    I was like “why would I want to virtually go to that room, for anyone reason ever?”

    The presenter go so fucking smug and was like “im glad you asked, this is literally a room from our head office. Top floor. New York. literally wall street.”

    I was like “in the meta verse is your only boundaries of where you could go the limits of your imagination?”

    “YES!”

    “And given the unlimited possibilities you modeled a stuffy conference room?”

    I’d literally rather be in a sewer. The absolute brainlets running the show blows my mind.

    VR is fucking cool. Give it some space to breathe and for fucks sake don’t use it to somehow put people in a fucking nightmare (conference room). I say this without a hint of sarcasm: my 3 year old could have provided better metaverse direction.






  • I think the reason for this is that there has been a palpable shift in the content of what people are communicating… and the old rage faces are poorly suited to what people are using them for. They provided a different “visual vocabulary”.

    The old rage faces served the purpose as shorthanding feeling and emotions visually. I’ll leave this as an exercise to the reader as to consider why 4chan users may have found an emotional shorthand vocabulary very appealing.

    They were used very generally for storytelling.

    Wojaks are primarily used to cue the reader to who is “good” and who is “bad”. Who is the cuck. It’s primarily a mechanism to lay out some type of disagreement and visually diminish one side. In this way, they’re not fla mechanism for storytelling, they’re a mechanism for persuasion.

    “General storytelling” NOW comes in the form of a Twitter screenshot.

    Anyhow, tl;dr: ragefaces and wojaks serve a different communicative purpose, and for some reason Twitter screenshots ejected ragefaces from thier niche


  • When a measure is used as a metric, it ceases to be a valuable measure.

    It’s literally a software engineers job to consider and understand functions. If you tell me I’ll be judged by the output of a function, I will crack it open to understand what inputs maximize outputs.

    I’ll burn though however many tokens you want me to. Give me hardware and a blank cheque I’ll bring a data center to its knees. I’m guessing your hope was that tokens burn would translate into productivity, but that hope was misplaced and that failure is on you.