I have been using them for the same reason after trying a couple of other ones. I didn’t like their client for Linux, but I’m happy otherwise.

I have an account in beehaw too, and it’s usually the one that interacts with the world. It’s considerably different from a different instance.

Have you considered that you’re a people pleaser? Being kind and nice is good, but do you do that in detriment of yourself? Can you say no to favors?