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The thing is, she seems really mature

Every time I read this I cringe. Because most of the time this comes from someone that cant really judge that. You dont seem to know each other for a long time or have a deep connection.

Besides that I wish both of you the best and maybe it turns out as some of the positive stories in the other comments. Or not. Both are ok.

I am pretty sure you will be surrounded by nazis at any “uncensored” instance, so I dont know why you would find that appealing.

Instead I would suggest you look for an instance that hosts communities about topics you enjoy. Check out https://joinmastodon.org/servers for that