Complicated can take time, or may require asking for help. Inscrutable sometime you just have to change direction entirely, or keep trying to go around it until you no longer find yourself bumping into it.

But some fences you can’t get past, and you have to accept that, too. The way for you may be only within the bounds of the fence. You don’t have to like it when that happens, but not linking it won’t change it. Death being the classic example.

You’ll be happier if fences in general don’t make you unhappy, and that’s part of what Aurelius means, too.