Thought in my head about if you suspect someone of being poly and your interested them, is it worth asking?
This does relate to my previous post and I like the “just flirt” route since its got the best case for it
Thought in my head about if you suspect someone of being poly and your interested them, is it worth asking?
This does relate to my previous post and I like the “just flirt” route since its got the best case for it
Yes monogamous people would probably be offended. Think of it this way; to monogamous people, polyamory is functionally cheating, so you’re indirectly accusing them of being a cheater with your question. It’s not my fault, this is just the reality.
The solution is so extremely simple you’ll laugh. Instead of asking if they’re poly, ask people if they’re monogamous. Other monogamous people will be like, yeah of course aren’t you? Poly people will say no without being offended.