You’re not wrong.

Should we feel bad for someone when this happens to them? Absolutely!

Should we feel any worse about this person than any other person in the same scenario? Not at all.

Umm… in what country is it people get kidnapped and ransomed every day? I mean, I’m not saying it’s not a thing, it does happen, but it’s actually pretty rare in most of North America. I mean, it’s pretty common in Mexico, but in most of the continent the most common kidnapping is a biological relative abducting a child.