Yeah. That’s not how conversations work mate. You say something and someone criticizes you for it. You address the criticism. Not start rambling about shit you made up in your head.
You asked questions to change the topic away from my criticism of you publicly shaming your kids. Which you still have not addressed.
Are you having a conversation with yourself? I don’t owe you any answers until you address my initial criticism. Or do you want to keep making up stuff I never said and then refuting it?
Shaming your kid in the way you described is what I’m criticizing. Maybe address that.
I’m sorry but this is awful advice. Bordline psychotic with the shaming them at school line. Paying friends to be snitches? Like i really hope this is satire.
Sounds like my parents. So forgive me if you’re joking. You just end up becoming someone your kids circumvent and not someone they come to for help.
Teaching a kid “how to live under your rules” is doing nothing to prepare them for how to live.
It really sounds like “talk to them” is just “command them and punish/shame them if that doesn’t work”.
I think you’re trying to convince yourself more than anyone else at this point.
It’s funny how you completely fell apart unable to defend your own point and started rambling about completely random shit. Still haven’t even given me a whisper of a response to your insane idea of public shaming to your kids.
Literally talking about paying kids to snitch on your children. That’s next level crazy parent shit. Something my initial comment hoped (in good faith) was a joke. But instead of clarifying that; you doubled down instead. Which only makes me believe you are actually that insane.
You are still making assumptions about “me” instead of responding to the single point of criticism I gave you. You hit some next level “debate lord” levels of incoherence at this point. Desperately trying to redirect from your initial comment.
Literally all Ive given you is a criticism of your initial comment. How you shame your kids publicly. That’s it. Anything else you’ve said has been shit you’ve made up to avoid talking about that. Which is really boring at this point.
But I’m sure you’re ready to respond with assumptions about me instead of trying to defend your own position.
/Yawn
Can you address my criticism or not? Because this is getting old.
Do you think publicly shaming your kids is good parenting? Because that’s what you gave advice for in the first place.
My initial comment hoped that you were joking about paying kids to snitch. Literally give me a crumb of denial (jest) mate. That’s all I’m asking.
Recover from that initial insane perspective.