Some time ago when Discord used Surveillance Services to face scan all their users a lot of possible alternatives where thrown around.

  • It should be already hosted by someone
  • have voice chat
  • Be easy to sign up to so that i can convince people
    • early_riser@lemmy.world
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      7 days ago

      Mumble lacks a ton of stuff that Discord has. There’s no persistent text chat, no screen sharing, no video. What it does have is really really easy administration.

      It frustrates me that all these Discord alternatives are trying to do everything Discord does when even Discord can’t pull it off sustainably at scale. Discord has been in the “be really cool to attract users” phase, and now it’s morphing into the “Oh crap we actually have bills to pay” phase. That’s why you’re seeing ads now, and it’s only going to get worse.

      I don’t want a billion concurrent users. I want a place for my small group of friends to hang out that isn’t hard to deploy or manage.

      • corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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        7 days ago

        Mumble lacks a ton of stuff

        You’re there to voice chat while gaming. It’s not a support forum and it’s not a wiki.

        Why ‘systemd’ something simple?

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          6 days ago

          You’re there to voice chat while gaming.

          And while doing so, one might want to do one of the things they listed… being able to quickly share screens is a huge part of discord for my group, we’re always showing each other new games we’re playing or helping each other out on games we’re playing together

          • corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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            6 days ago

            Fair point. My game client has a text chat for the game in question, but the voice chat isn’t working under lutris because another group coded it and they cheated with the APIs.

            So we can and do use text chat from the game itself and the voice chat is the only broken bit.

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    6 days ago

    I went back to using in-game communication and social features and I can’t believe we stopped doing it. It is so much more immersive to hang out in, say, a guild hall to chat with whoever happens to be online, than to be available 24/7 in an outside app.

  • Nebby@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 days ago

    Matrix is really good i have a homeserver setup with a livekit instance using sable client and its really good. VC works really well theres a soundboard that you can customize if your willing to mess around with the element call src code (hopefully that changes at some point to be easier) screensharing does work but desktop audio doesnt tab audio does seem to work but only from chromium based browsers (i.e brave) (this can be workd arround by routing audio through your mic but is a bit of a pain hopefully it gets implimented soon. (Also sable doesnt yet have a desktop or mobile site but the web app works well in mobile browsers)

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    7 days ago

    Discord is still king. People are way too invested.

    Matrix is decent for me. Voice, video, and screen share, works well. Have not had issues with small friend groups

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      7 days ago

      I use matrix with a friend, matrix calls (the one that has the option for video) drop out on their own with no warning and the ring tone is very easy to miss, I wish there was anything to do about those two problems. Other than that it’s great, legacy calls seem more robust

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    6 days ago

    The dust hasn’t settled yet. Still waiting for options like Fluxer or Stoat to cover the basic use cases fully.

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    24 hours ago

    I don’t do online multiplayer. If I’m playing a video game with someone, they’re in the room with me and we can just talk.

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    7 days ago

    When i play with my brother we use our phones to, get this, call each other. Obviously harder to do with more people but if its just you and a buddy your phone can be used as a phone.

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    7 days ago

    Fluxer for me and my friend group. Signal was actually the primary plan but it doesn’t work for two main reasons for us, both related to the fact that we record ttrpg sessions. Since I don’t think this would affect most people, I’d also recommend Signal, though some people dislike needing a phone number to sign up.