Looking for both logical and emotional reinforcements, from casual acquaintances to intimate partners, and any orientation if not especially, everyone matters.

Frame it as a “friend” if you’d like, but I would like to know what made an impactful impression on you personally, above and beyond any hypothetical.

  • TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    Have you seen any trans people at these nudist spaces? I’ve been interested by the idea a few times, but always got put off by the fact that I felt it would make me incredibly dysphoric

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      4 days ago

      YMMV depending on where exactly you go, but the place I usually go to has a trans employee who usually works the front desk and sometimes bartends

      And one band that performs there pretty regularly has a trans singer. Most of the bands and such they book there keep their clothes on, she was the exception.

      And I think this says a lot, because she was up on stage performing for a couple hours, I probably walked right by her about six times before I noticed that she had a penis, and the only reason I did was because the rest of the band fucked off for a few minutes to get a drink or something and she stayed up on stage singing for a while and I finally realized that the deep voice that had been singing was coming from her

      So you really quickly stop taking notice of people’s genitals there. That’s all that I’ve personally noticed but there very well might have been tons more and I just didn’t notice. Definitely no shortage of other LGBQ folks around there though.